Getting along with people is probably one of the greatest skills you can acquire in life. You can be bad at everything else but if you can master the art of people you will get what you want out of life and a lot faster than you ever thought.
Do not panic if you don't think you are a 'natural'. The art of people is not a "either you have it or you don't" thing. It can be learnt just like any other skill - you just have to work on it.
Firstly, look at people that you like to hang out with. These probably have a few things in common - they make you feel good about being yourself and perhaps are funny.
There are no 'tricks' to this but you have to learn to be you - just with more skill. If you are not being authentic than you are not going to be yourself
Making people feel good
This just requires that you look at things from other peoples prepectives and you pay attention to what they say/want.
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You write very well.
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